Lebedieff says
Let me explain exactly what I mean. Everything displeases me. As for your marriage, I simply can’t abide it. Forgive me, little Sasha, this marriage may be a wise one; it may be honest and not misguided, nevertheless, there is something about the whole affair that is not right; no, not right! You are not marrying as other girls do; you are young and fresh and pure as a drop of water, and he is a widower, battered and worn. Heaven help him. I don’t understand him at all. Forgive me for saying so, Sasha, but I am sure there is something crooked about this affair; it is making a great deal of talk. It seems people are saying that first Sarah died, and then suddenly Ivanov wanted to marry you. But, no, I am like an old woman; I am gossiping like a magpie. You must not listen to me or any one, only to your own heart.